After some reflection, soul searching this re-alignment of my internal compass firmly towards self-love and protection.
It says, simply the very most important qualities in a person, whom I will from now on permit navigation, in my emotional waters will be authenticity, honesty, plausibility and a balance of trust, bravery and fearlessness, in timely communication.
Everything else, everything, is just inconsequential desire and although understandable, nevertheless a chimera, without the above established basics, firmly grounded in a persona.